How to build good relations with people?
Building good relations with people
Kindness and
generosity are the key ingredients in the recipe for building a strong and
impactful personality. It is very important to develop a sense of
thoughtfulness and consideration for others to have more positive and
fulfilling relationships with our friends, family, and even strangers.
Here are some
habits which you can practice daily to become a better person every day:
1. SMILE MORE 😊:
Some of your
mates would be tired enough to smile at you, but you can lend them one of
yours. It gives a feeling of being wanted, being noticed, and being loved by
those who think they’re not worthy. You are giving a sense of worthiness to people,
it’s a great thing to do, innit?
2. Engage in small acts of kindness:
A small act of
kindness enriches the other person. They can be very small and also in return
they boost your self-esteem. These actions require efforts at first but the
efforts are worth it!
You can do these
small things like:
· Say
words like “I’m there for you” instead of “calm down” to a person who is going
through a rough phase in life.
· Ask
people how are they doing and if they need some help.
· Always
compliment people (be it, strangers).
· Be
kind enough to offer your seat to a person who needs it.
· Always
say ‘thank-you’ for the smallest of things.
· Feed
a stray dog.
· Provide
food to the labor working on a construction site.
· Be
a good listener.
·
Feed
the less fortunate ones.
3. LOOK FOR POSITIVE TRAITS IN EVERY PERSON:
What I personally
do is I make a list with two columns and map out the things that I like about
that person and things that I don’t. I always end up liking the virtues better
because they always overpower the vices.
4. LEARN TO FORGIVE:
You are only
harming yourself!
Learn to forgive.
You can maybe write a letter to a person you want to forgive. You can write
like this:
Dear ____,
(Your complain)
And at the end
just write “It’s fine, I have I big heart so that is why I forgive you”
And then tear the paper, eliminate the hatred and
throw it away!
5. TRY TO UNDERSTAND PEOPLE:
If you want to be understood, you have to understand.
It happens many
times that if a person doesn’t pick up your call you take them as to be rude,
but we never think that the person might be going through some serious life
crisis or might just be away from his phone for that matter. We should always
learn to give the benefit of the doubt.
“JUDGING IS FOR THE WEAK AND UNDERSTANDING IS
FOR THE STRONG”
Try to understand
that what a person might be going through before you judge them, which takes me
to the next point.
6. NEVER JUDGE AT FIRST SIGHT:
We judge people based on our instincts and you are mistaken if you think instincts are spontaneous; they are a byproduct of our past experiences with different people. But just like our fingerprints, every person is unique and it is not fair to judge anyone based on your preconceived notions.
7. DON’T NEGLECT YOUR CLOSE ONES:
Many times, we don’t pay attention to the people who are close to us like our friends, parents, grandparents, loved ones, etc. because we are with them all the time, we often fail to acknowledge their value in our lives.
Do small things to show them love, like:· Bring them flowers.
· Tell
them their importance in your life.
· Try
to remember even the smallest of things about them; that makes them feel
special.
· Spend
quality time with them.
· Listen
to them; make them feel that they've heard.
“DO THINGS FOR PEOPLE NOT BECAUSE OF WHO
THEY ARE OR WHAT THEY DO IN RETURN, BUT BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE”
A little act of
kindness can help someone retain their
trust in humanity! That sounds big no? But it costs nothing; just a big
heart will suffice!
Thank you for reading. If you keep these points in mind you'll be able to build POSITIVE RELATIONS WITH PEOPLE for sure!
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HAPPY LIVING! 😊
That was really amazing rainaa !
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Keep writinggg girll !!
After reading this I realised I have so many positive and good habits in me and how many more I have to develop! Your blog= personal growth
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ReplyDeleteAmazingly written Raina. All the points were brilliant and they did have an impact over my life and beliefs. Kee up the good work !! :))
ReplyDeleteForgiveness and kindness gives lots of satisfaction and makes a person mentally strong.So each of us try this fact.
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ReplyDeleteVery nice Raina. This is going to help many of usto develop our personality in a very positive way. And our relations with people around us will improve. Thanks a lot . Keep writing ❤️
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